If you receive an answer which you recognize as a correct and complete answer to the question that you asked but not to the question that you wanted to ask, then consensus here seems to be that the respectful thing to do is accept the answer and try again with a different question. But this doesn't sound like your situation as you describe it.
All in all, the goal of the site is of course for the OP to receive at least one answer to her question that she finds satisfactory, so if you're not there yet, feel free to keep trying.
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