I don't think the we should tolerate questions that offend the sensibilities of members of the community. MO is not meant to be a way for non-mathematicians to get better access to mathematicians; it's meant to be a way for mathematicians to get better access to each other. I agree that there's a place for PR, but I'm far more concerned with keeping mathematicians interested in visiting the site than I am with making the site friendly to non-mathematicians.
]]>I hope to have a preliminary draft of a guide to asking good questions up soon. The basic idea is that asking a question on MO should be an extension of how you normally solve problems in mathematics. Suppose you're studying for quals and you hit a snag; either you don't understand a result or you don't know how to do a problem. Try to break your problem down into smaller pieces ("if there's a problem you can't solve, there's a simpler one you can't solve") and ask it to yourself from different points of view (e.g. instead of asking, "where does the proof use X?" try "is the result true without X?"; instead of trying to prove a result, look for counterexamples). Chances are that you'll either resolve your problem (great!) or reduce it to a question that is interesting by itself which you can post on MO (in the case Harry linked to, "Is every left fibration of simplicial sets a trivial Kan fibration?").
]]>Since you are unsure, invest a bit more into writing correctly, putting links, using good structure. And say you've already read Wikipedia and did Google. That dramatically highers the chances people will like your question.
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