Gerhard "It Does Mean More Effort" Paseman, 2011.08.26
]]>Leaving the question of the expected answer and even whether to ask aside: in my opinion, as soon as one asks one should definitely follow the expressed wishes. To avoid problems with nonresponse, François suggestion is something I will keep in mind.
]]>[Edit: Changed the wording to reflect the fact that Andreas's suggestion was meant for a particular case, not necessarily meant as a general principle.]
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